To those men who look for wife in Colombia
If you decided to get married and live with your wife in grief and joy happily ever after it is the step that deserves at least honor. When men say wants to find a good wife, he rarely means he has go to Colombia and find one there. It sounds silly and hard to imagine sometimes. But the true is many foreign men really mean to go to Colombia and find wife there. Marriage is serious step for man and woman and none of the guys or girls is getting married or creates family to have fun. If it is going about easy girls, it's not a problem to find lots of them in the whole world, but wife from abroad is something serious. It is responsibility and possible discomfort and problems as well as possible good time spending and happiness.
Colombia is huge country and every girl is unique in some way. As any other, Colombian women have different social status, moral qualities, level of intelligence and education, even color of skin and much more. Special is their behavior as differs from one girl to another. It might be not that hard to find wife in Colombia as it is in USA, but it is not that easy as you might think. Colombian girls usually are eager to marry foreigner, because they think he is rich and they would escape from their poor country to the world of pleasure and nothing to do. But remember if you have looser quality in your home country and behave in such a way, you have to try changing yourself first. Looser is not able to find women because she will never be with him. There are many reasons why like he's not reliable enough, not self-confident, maybe shy. If it's hard for you to find wife a home country, it would be hard to do in Colombia as well.
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If you are such shy quiet and unconfident guy, the thing that might happen to you is chatting online some fake-girl, usually professional Colombia translator, who gets paid for such chats from the dating agency. Then you surely visit Colombia big city like La Pas or, more likely, Bogota, and there you are going to spend great sum of money like 2 thousand dollars a week. - For what? - For communication with pretty Colombian woman via translator or sometimes without. This communication is not sincere, because women you are dating with is just working. She is not in love with you; it is her work chatting with you and spend time with you. Her task is also to take as much money from you as possible. However, work does not imply sex. It is communication, expensive gifts you present, very expensive restaurants you are to visit and at the end of week you'll fly home without a girlfriend, probably disappointed and for sure with empty wallet.
- Does it mean all Colombian women are like that? - Of course, not. You just chose wrong way to find Colombian wife. There are many online scammers whose aim is your money. There are also many sex tourists who visit Colombia, find easy girls and have rest, but that fact could not be used to generalize all the country and Colombian women in general.
If you seek Colombian wife, we would advise you to do some steps before. They will help at the beginning of your search and in the future.
First of all, find information about Colombia and it’s culture. Then learn some Spanish language. Colombian Spanish has its peculiarities than usual, but some knowledge of this language is important. Even with the help of vocabulary, maybe you’ll have to visit Spanish language courses, but it is better to have poor level of Spanish than complete absence of it at all. It could be the hardest part, but without it you won't get success in search of Colombian wife or will be deceived. When you already have some level of Spanish language, try to visit places where Colombian people hang out.
Talk to some Colombians who are from American Diaspora. Register at Colombian social networks and communicate to Colombian girls online. Young Colombians speak descent English and you may combine your knowledge of Spanish and their knowledge of English to chat. Then only there is possibility to find some good girl and then only visit Colombia some day. But do not let illusions rule over good sense, maybe after visit to Colombia you will come back home disappointed or just with understanding she is not the one. Think this is just tourist trip to Colombia. If you won't find wife in Colombia fast, it is good. And why it is so? Think carefully, when you are dating to the girl in your country, how quick she'd become your wife?
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So do not think just right after one flight to Colombia you will find good caring wife? Every person needs time to get to know the other person better, so it's unreal to find good wife so quickly. And even if you will, that does not mean she will be good wife and in the future you are going to have a lot of misunderstandings and arguments. If you found wife in Colombia easy, watch carefully, usually something is wrong about that. Whether it is scam or the girl has bad reputation. Get married only if you have real feelings and it doesn’t matter whether she is Colombian, Brazilian or German; all the people are equal.